It’s been a while since I’ve talked about changing appearance using the law of attraction.
Since the last video in May 2017, so much has changed – my spiritual journey has since gotten so much richer and more meaningful.
I feel like I’ve moved away from theory and simple empirical evidence and to knowing exactly what to do, why we should do it, and how to do it.
Let me start by saying this. Changing your appearance IS possible. Today, I have a method for you that WILL work.
I’ve developed this method through my spiritual journey and through the thousands of success stories I’ve received since making my first change your appearance video.
Let me explain.
Even as someone who teaches spirituality and law of attraction, I go through stages where I’m not consciously manifesting the reality I want.
For 2 months now, I’ve been feeding myself a story – I’ll get back in shape in 2019, in February, in March…
With that story, came the limiting belief that I’m NOT in shape.
The other day, I was looking myself in the mirror and picking at things I didn’t like – when I felt a nudge.
It was a playful nudge from my higher self.
Side note: When you’re super in tune with yourself and your intuition, it’s really easy to hear the messages from your higher self and from the universe!
My higher self, who I really am, was telling me I’m being so silly by being mean to my human suit.
This was a concept I had never really considered before, and so I started to have a full on laugh attack…I truly had a lovely belly laugh, and looked at myself again and thought – wow body, I really love you.
The concept of “human suit” was so unbelievably funny and adorable to me, that my whole mood changed.
And with that vibration-raiser, I received a download of information from my higher self, which I knew was meant to be shared with my lovely Ellies:
it was a reminder, something I had always known (that’s how information from your higher self feels. It feels familiar).
The reminder was to love your human suit until it looks exactly the way you want it to, but not be attached to it because it’s such an earthly matter that has no real baring on the big picture at all.
Let me explain, and if you tap into this and really let it in, you will likely disassociate with the body a bit and realize who you really are.
Your body is not you, it simply isn’t WHO YOU ARE.
We define ourselves based on our bodies – white, black, yellow, olive, tall, short, blue eyed, brown eyed…but really, our body is a biological machine that is home for our soul.
This machine protects your soul, allows you to explore the physical earthly world, allows you to taste delicious food and feel a loved ones touch…
It is a loving machine that does its absolute best to help you navigate this beautiful world and get you up in the morning so you could enjoy all the senses you desire.
Our human suit is doing it’s very best to stay healthy and energetic for us, even though we are so so mean to it.
We pick on it every day: we tell it it’s too fat, too skinny, too short, too slow, too dark, too pale, too tired.
Instead of taking care of this container that houses our soul, we neglect and abuse it.
We feed it too much or too little, we abuse it with alcohol and drugs and sex with people who don’t deserve or treasure it, we compare it to other human suits and make it feel like it’s unworthy…
Would you ever treat anyone in your life like this? No? Then why would you treat yourself like that? Why would you treat the biological machine that you CHOSE to inhabit, in that way?
If you want to change something, you have to love it into changing. You cannot hate something into changing.
And that’s the thing about a human suit. It’s just a suit.
It can change. But you have to be at the right place mentally and within your soul – a place where you’re giving it unconditional love and understanding and realizing it’s doing it’s very best with what you give it.
Love will change you, love will transform the human suit to the most dazzling YOU you could have ever hoped to be.
So what DO we need to do?
What you need to do is look at yourself in the mirror with a big smile on your face and say “I love you” over and over again, especially to the specific parts of you you want to change.
Your higher self knows exactly the way you desire to look, so when you align with the frequency of loving what you have already, your reality will reflect that.
When you go to sleep at night, I want you to close your eyes, put that smile on your face again, check in with your body, then talk to it. Talk to your body whenever you can. Tell it you love it, tell it you appreciate it, you’re grateful for all the hard work it does for you.
List some of the things you’re grateful for that your body does for you. Hug yourself tightly – the way you would a person that you’ve hurt for many many years and now want to become best friends with.
Your body will accept that love and THRIVE from it.
There are studies that show plants thrive when they are given love. Since you are not your body, it applies exactly in the same way.
You feed your body love, sunshine, give it plenty of rest, feed it the best food you possibly can give it – water it often, keep it away from people that can hurt it, only share it with people that will cherish and treasure it, and keep telling it it’s doing such a good job.
You can visualize how you want to look, and that’ll help keep your ego occupied, who doesn’t want to believe you can change the way you look so easily – but your heart knows.
Your soul knows. So if you aren’t good at visualizing yourself looking differently, you don’t need to do that.
You just need to work on shushing your ego up. Give it love like you give your body love. Remember, the egos main purpose is to protect us.
We have to start loving our human suit no matter what.
It’s the same with money – so many people think that if they won the lottery they will suddenly be so happy because they can buy things.
The reality is that if you don’t fix the inside first, if you don’t understand what’s going on with your soul, all you’re doing is changing the outside physical circumstances and putting the same person into them. You will have all the same problems and all the same emotions, just in a fancier setting.
Nothing external can fix how we feel. We have to fix it from the inside.
I love my body so so so much. Thank you for everything you do for me. Thank you for protecting me through the years of abuse I out you through / the years of pain and neglect. I love you so much.
Now, it’s your turn.